Men can be soft, but women can be strong

Someone once said: "God gave softness to women and hardness to men. However, hardness is easy to break, and softness is not strong, so God gave yoga to give men some softness and women some strength."

Do you agree with this statement?

Traditional Chinese philosophy emphasizes the doctrine of the mean, pursuing impartiality and believing that too much is as bad as too little. People may not have a favorable impression of moderation, but moderation is not mediocrity. It is a rational trade-off and choice of reality. It has become a cultural trait imprinted in the bones of Chinese people. It does not seek extremes but is peaceful and moderate.

As for the yoga of ancient India, for men and women with different characteristics, it complements each other, making strong men more "soft" and giving soft women an element of "strength".

Men and women complement each other in society. Men are as masculine as trees, and women are as gentle as water. Men and women complement and assist each other, pushing human society forward continuously. For example, men and women constitute the most basic unit of society - the family. An enterprise or unit with only men or only women will not be able to develop in the long run. A country's leadership group must also have both men and women to maintain long-term vitality.

If men are too tough and women are too gentle, and there is no element of harmony, it will be dangerous.

A man who is too resolute will make women become victims of the saying "brothers are like limbs, women are like clothes". Women will become weak in the family and have no status in society. The feminist struggle will inevitably become more intense. Men need some softness and a gentle mind to appreciate the delicacy and sensitivity of women. Only in this way can men and women get along harmoniously.

A woman who is always gentle is not desirable. A woman is beautiful because of her gentleness. She enjoys the gazes and admiration of others with her subtlety and elegance. However, if she only tries to please others and loses her own opinions, or only tries to please men with gentleness, then when her beauty fades, can a woman still maintain her position in a man's heart? A woman needs not only to be gentle, she also needs to be smart and strong, have her own opinions and be independent, and be able to stand proudly in the world without relying on others.

Yoga is a spiritual sport that has been passed down from ancient India to the present day. Practicing it can not only make our bodies more flexible, but also keep our minds clear and lucid during practice.

Men practicing yoga can make their stiff bodies become stretched, and they can also feel the softness personally. They can understand that the bodies of men and women need to be explored equally, and that men and women are equal beings in the world, so that they can treat each other more gently.

Women practicing yoga can strengthen their soft bodies, gradually build up strength, and make their bodies more graceful and strong. At the same time, yoga can also make women feel the balance and stability from the mind that is invisible visually, eliminate physical and mental unnaturalness, restore original health and beauty, mobilize the wisdom and strength of inner life, and thus become "strong".

Osho once said in "The Works of Osho": "We must search within ourselves and find a space where joy can develop on its own. It is our innermost source." Both men and women need to change themselves so that both parties can achieve harmonious coordination with each other. Yoga provides a realistic way to do this.

The practice of yoga is not done behind closed doors. Men and women can better integrate with each other by communicating and passing on knowledge to each other during the practice, deepening their feelings and trusting each other.

Practicing yoga can give men some flexibility and women some strength. Yoga is not just about postures, it also involves meditation and breathing. Men and women who practice yoga will understand each other better and cherish each other. Practicing yoga will allow men and women to respect, cherish and be gentle to all things, and make men and women understand that we are originally one.